Crossing the lines of consent can happen to newbie’s and people that have been doing this awhile. It can be coming from the tops side or the bottom side and it can be both blatant and subtle. So stop, think, and be aware that someone giving their consent to a scene may be doing so only partially, and if so, no matter which side of the whip you are on, that is defiantly something you need to know.
If you are interested in an online New Mexico Community check out:
group name: New Mexico Fetlifers