Want to contribute?

Do you have opinions about sex?  Seriously...

Virtually everyone has had good and bad experiences in their sex lives.  We all have funny stories and tales of woe.  We have learned some important lessons the hard way.  Sometimes we inadvertently make lots of puns and double entendres.  

If you like writing and want to share sex advice, stories, political commentary, sex education, erotica, or any other wisdom -please join us!  let us know what you'd like to share.

Nice to meet you...

Everyday at Self Serve in Albuquerque we learn about sex and relationships through our experiences at the shop, problem solving with customers and giving people permission to feel good.  We meet people with amazing experiences in relationships, sex and love.  We all have the potential for joy and pleasure in life, and we can all become our own sexpert.

Self Serve(d) will provide a forum to share the knowledge and experiences of sex educators at our shop and advice and stories from our wider sex-positive community.

We are excited to hear stories from nurses, kinky people, poly folk, nerds, journalists, punk rockers, people in public health and lots of other friends.