I do believe this is the most un-sexy representation of a boner I've ever seen.
Oh, and don't forget to look at the fine print:
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Showing posts with label men's health. Show all posts
Showing posts with label men's health. Show all posts
Monday, July 25, 2011
Meet Animatronic Penis & his RX only male vibrator
I do believe this is the most un-sexy representation of a boner I've ever seen.
Oh, and don't forget to look at the fine print:
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
The Arousing Scent of Pumpkin Pie
This report from my new favorite news provider, WPBF of West Palm Beach, tells of new research on scents that turn men on. A study published in Medical Aspects of Human Sexuality showed that pumpkin pie and lavender arouse men up to 40% more.
I enjoy the giggling news casters as they report that the study found "nothing turns men off." Among the scents that turned women off? Men's cologne.
Thursday, November 11, 2010
It's MOvember! Grow it out for men's health
I just learned about the awesome movement of Movember. Every November men around the world grow their moustaches for men's health awareness. Yay for healthy testicals and prostates! Boo cancer!
It's not too late to start growing yours and spreading the word. I also recommend prostate massage for a healthy body!
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
Rethinking Creep
Creep, creeper, heebby-geebies, you just know when you feel it. What makes a creep? Why is it so hard to define? Clarisse Thorn writes "Why Do We Demonize Men Who Are Honest About Their Sexual Needs?" asking women to think how the term creep.
How does a guy express sexual interest without coming off as a creep? Our dominant culture that makes talking about sex taboo. Coupled that with pressure on guys to be the initiators, what's a caring guy to do? Charlie Glickman Suggests 5 tips for men.
I use 'creep' to refer to a situation where a person unconsentually puts their sexual desires in the social, emotional, or physical space of someone(s) else. A creep does not respect boundaries. When boundaries are unstated, creeps don't ask for clarification. Creeps often come off as awkward or shifty.
Although, as Thorn points out, women can generalize any open and honest communication about sexuality as creepy. Open and honest communication about sex, desire is uncommon in our society, so it would make sense for it to feel odd or uncomfortable at first (especially amidst all the sex negative message we receive daily). If sex positivity is the goal then we all need to get used to talking about sex in appropriate consentual situations. Of course, being mindful about context is important. Having a loud conversation about masturbation sleeves in line at the zoo with young kids and families around you might make your date or fellow zoo-goers uncomfortable. I think we should be open about bodies, sex, sexuality, but there are cultural expectations for public spaces. You wouldn't poop on the sidewalk or get on the city bus naked (not to mention, those two acts are illegal).
Moral of the story, is consent. Be considerate and communicative, not creepy.
How does a guy express sexual interest without coming off as a creep? Our dominant culture that makes talking about sex taboo. Coupled that with pressure on guys to be the initiators, what's a caring guy to do? Charlie Glickman Suggests 5 tips for men.
I use 'creep' to refer to a situation where a person unconsentually puts their sexual desires in the social, emotional, or physical space of someone(s) else. A creep does not respect boundaries. When boundaries are unstated, creeps don't ask for clarification. Creeps often come off as awkward or shifty.
Although, as Thorn points out, women can generalize any open and honest communication about sexuality as creepy. Open and honest communication about sex, desire is uncommon in our society, so it would make sense for it to feel odd or uncomfortable at first (especially amidst all the sex negative message we receive daily). If sex positivity is the goal then we all need to get used to talking about sex in appropriate consentual situations. Of course, being mindful about context is important. Having a loud conversation about masturbation sleeves in line at the zoo with young kids and families around you might make your date or fellow zoo-goers uncomfortable. I think we should be open about bodies, sex, sexuality, but there are cultural expectations for public spaces. You wouldn't poop on the sidewalk or get on the city bus naked (not to mention, those two acts are illegal).
Moral of the story, is consent. Be considerate and communicative, not creepy.
Friday, August 13, 2010
5 Reasons for a Prostate Massage | Prostate Cancer: By the Numbers | Prostate Cancer
I love that the human body can heal itself and find pleasure at the same time. Two more reasons for men to explore prostate massage: preventing prostate cancer and relieving impotence.
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