Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Find Your G-Spot!

First of all, some myth busting:

Yes, everyone has one.  No, it's not a myth.  No, not everyone will ejaculate buckets from g-spot stimulation.

But it sure can be fun to look for your g-spot and do some "research"!

First of all, your fingers are a fine way to find your g-spot.  You don't necessarily need any toys.  Of course, Self Serve isn't going to argue if you like helpful g-spot accessories.

Keep in mind while every female has a g-spot, not everyone finds it so pleasurable to stimulate.  Also, the vast majority of women need some kind of clitoral stimulation in order to get off.  That may mean oral sex, erotic touch, vibrators or something else- but usually intercourse isn't the easiest route to orgasm for women.  Don't give up on communication - most of us don't share enough with our partners.

Turn yourself on or enjoy pleasure however you normally do.  The clitoris is a popular route!  Once you are aroused, insert one or two fingers vaginally.  Curve fingers in a 'come hither' motion toward your belly.  Bear down your muscles in the pelvic floor to push your g-spot out a bit.  It is totally normal to feel like you have to pee when you stimulate the g-spot, since the g-spot is right near your urethra.  The g-spot feels more textured than the smoothness of the vaginal canal.  You'll know you're in the right spot when it feel more round and bumpy.

Remember to breathe and relax your muscles.  Many women suck in, stop breathing, and tighten muscles during sex.  Sometimes this can be arousing, but you need to take deep breaths and relax muscles to enjoy your g-spot.

Try rhythmic massage in a circular motion on your g-spot.  Alternate external stimulation and g-spot massage.  As you get more and more aroused you may experience new pleasure and sensation.

Some toys are great for g-spot play if and when you want to explore more.  Lots of toys don't have to cost much either.  I have a shop, where the G-Shift toy is popular - and only $19.95.  People often respond well to glass or metal dildos, too.

Don't forget to have fun exploring!  Remember that even if you 'find' it, that doesn't mean you'll have instant pleasure.

Learn more with our fun videos on Self Serve's Youtube channel.

Meet the JeJoue G-Ki vibrator and learn why it's an excellent G-spot vibrator:

Check out the Njoy Pure Wand and see why stainless steel makes a gorgeous g-spot sex toy:

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