Sex Music

As Valentine's day draws near, I am updating my playlists for both "romance" and "stripping". Both lists are made up of love songs, or songs that get you in the mood for sex. However the "romance" songs are, well...romantic music that put me in the mood for "making love". Soft, slow, tender-hearted music that you might slow-dance to while you gaze into each other's eyes. Sex to this music is usually slow, soft, gentle and makes you want to cuddle for a long time afterwards while you bask in the afterglow.

The "stripping" playlist (for lack of a better name) is music that puts me in the mood for fucking. Raunchier songs, usually with a good rhythmic beat that evokes the more raw, animal side of sex. A few of the selections might seem strange, but they are on there because they make me feel sexy, for whatever reason. Britney Spears' "Circus" for example is kind of silly and fun but the lyrics just apply to me -- "put-on-a-show-kind-of-girl...like a firecracker, I'll make it hot...all eyes on me in the middle of the ring..." This type of song isn't traditionally dirty or romantic, but it puts me in a teasing, sexy, hungry mood. Probably the most effective ones on here are "Feeling Love" (you make me feel like the amazon's running between my thighs!) and "Nasty, Naughty Boy" (gonna give you a little taste of the sugar below my waist!). "Lovin, Touchin, Squeezin" has lyrics about betrayal and revenge, but I can't resist that dirty beat that simulates intense, focused, slow thrusting.

If my husband comes home and hears the second list playing...he knows that he'd better take his vitamins!

I'd love to hear what your favorite sex music is, either romantic or raunchy. I'm always adding to the list...

Love, Bliss

Songs for Romance

#34 - Dave Matthews Band

To Make You Feel My Love - Hilary Scott

Let's Stay Together Al Green

Eternal Flame The Bangles

I've Got a Crush on You - Linda Ronstadt

Into the Night Benny Mardones

Come To Me - Bobby Caldwell

I'm On Fire - Bruce Springsteen

Will You Love Me Tomorrow? - Carole King

What Are You Doing the Rest of Your Life - Chris Botti featuring Sting

Wicked Game - Chris Isaak

Longer - Dan Fogelberg

The Look of Love - Diana Krall

Misty Blue - Dorothy Moore

I'll Be - Edwin McCain

Your Song - Elton John

She - Elvis Costello

Can't Help Falling In Love - Elvis Presley

Love Me Tender - Elvis Presley

Wonderful Tonight - Eric Clapton

At Last - Eva Cassidy

Songbird - Fleetwood Mac

Crazy Love - Van Morrison

I Want You to Be My Love – Over the Rhine

Shameless - Garth Brooks

Falling Slowly -Glen Hansard & Marketa Irglova

Beautiful - Gordon Lightfoot

The Sea And The Rhythm - Iron & Wine

Stardust - Willie Nelson

Something Fine - Jackson Browne

Unchained Melody - Willie Nelson

Have A Little Faith In Me - Jewel

You're Still You - Josh Groban

Faithfully - Journey

Wash Me Clean - K.D. Lang

Unforgettable - Lou Rawls

This Is For Life - Luka Bloom

Have I Told You Lately? - Van Morrison

Nobody Knows Me - Lyle Lovett

Crazy for You - Madonna

Dream a Little Dream of Me - The Mamas & the Papas

True Companion - Marc Cohn

You and I - Michael Bublé

When I Fall In Love - Nat King Cole & Natalie Cole

Harvest Moon - Neil Young

Cello Song - Nick Drake

Come Away With Me - Norah Jones

Fever - Peggy Lee

The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face - Roberta Flack

When You Say Nothing At All - Ronan Keating

Samba Pa' Ti - Santana

Underneath your clothes - Shakira

Fields Of Gold - Sting

Heaven's Here On Earth -Tracy Chapman

Smoke And Ashes -Tracy Chapman

Moondance - Van Morrison

Someone Like You - Van Morrison

Unchained Melody - Willie Nelson

Someone To Watch Over Me - Willie Nelson

Constant Craving – KD Lang

"Stripping" Music

Wicked Game - Chris Isaak

Feelin' Love - Paula Cole

Nasty Naughty Boy - Christina Aguilera

Red House - Jimi Hendrix

You Can Leave Your Hat On - Joe Cocker

Need You Tonight - INXS

I'm On Fire - Bruce Springsteen

So Hott – Kid Rock

Black Velvet - Alannah Myles

Fever - Eva Cassidy

Lovin', Touchin', Squeezin' - Journey

Darling Nikki – Prince

Trouble – Over the Rhine

Piece Of My Heart - Janis Joplin

Baby Did a Bad Bad Thing - Chris Isaak

If U Seek Amy - Britney Spears

Cream (Version Without Rap Monologue) - Prince

SexyBack - Justin Timberlake

Slow Ride - Bonnie Raitt

The Stroke - Billy Squier

Dirrty - Christina Aguilera

Bad to the Bone – George Thorogood

A Little Less Conversation - Elvis Presley

Let It Rock - Kevin Rudolf & Lil Wayne

London Bridge - Fergie

Come Baby Come - K7

Get the Party Started - P!nk

Eyes Like Yours - Shakira

Hurts So Good - John Cougar

Circus - Britney Spears

S & M – Rhianna